Birthdays are a reminder of the passage of time, and when you think of the people who were once a significant part of your life, it's hard not to feel the weight of that loss. Perhaps you're thinking of someone who you used to be close to, but circumstances changed, and you drifted apart. Or maybe there was an event that caused a rift in your relationship, and you haven't been able to repair it since.

Regardless of the reason for your separation, it's hard not to wonder if the other person thinks about you the way you think about them. Do they remember the good times you shared, or have they moved on entirely, leaving you alone with your memories?

On their birthday, you feel the pull to reach out and wish them well, to remind them that you still care, but there's a fear that doing so would only confirm that you're the only one holding onto the past. The thought of their indifference is crushing, and the emptiness inside you grows as you realize that they're no longer a part of your life.

The memories flood your mind, and you're left with the bittersweet realization that no matter how much time passes, they will always hold a special place in your heart. You wonder if they're thinking of you on their birthday, or if you've been forgotten entirely. The thought of their happiness without you is hard to bear, and the weight of the loss is almost unbearable.

But even in the midst of the pain, it's important to remember that you're not alone. The ache you feel is a testament to the depth of your emotions and the value of the relationship you once had. It's okay to hold onto those memories, to cherish them and allow yourself to feel the sadness that comes with them.

And if you do choose to reach out on their birthday, remember that the act of doing so isn't a sign of weakness or an inability to move on. It's a reminder that you're human, with emotions and memories that are valid and worthy of recognition.

In the end, the most important thing is to prioritize your own emotional health and well-being. Take the time you need to process your feelings, and remember that it's okay to let go and move on when the time is right. The memories may remain, but it's up to you to decide how they shape your future.

It's OK!!